Congrats, lovebirds! Whether you just got engaged or are casually window-shopping wedding inspo, one thing’s clear: planning a wedding is not a hobby—it’s a lifestyle. From choosing a venue to nailing your first dress fitting, there’s a lot to tackle. But fear not: with a little strategy, a sprinkle of patience, and your favorite playlist on repeat, you can make the process fun, stylish, and remarkably stress-free.
Here’s your frugal-chic-approved month-by-month guide to slay wedding planning without losing your mind.
1. Money Talks (aka The Budget Reality Check)
Before anything else, get real about who’s footing the bill and how much you can comfortably spend. Track every naira in a spreadsheet. Treat it like a style investment: intentional, curated, and worth every penny.
2. Guest List Drama
Nobody wants chaos. Decide on your headcount early based on budget and venue size. Divide invites thoughtfully—tradition says 70/30 if you’re paying, or thirds if families contribute—but modern couples can bend the rules.
3. Assemble Your Dream Team
A wedding planner is like the fairy godparent of your big day: recommending vendors, keeping timelines tight, and ensuring no drama ruins the aesthetic. Hire one early if your budget allows.
4. Set the Tone (and Venue)
Ask yourselves: What vibe are we going for? Your venue will dictate almost everything—from guest count to décor, to the kind of flowers Instagram will love. Visit multiple spots and lock in the one that balances style and budget.
5. Eat, Drink, and Be Married (Menu Matters)
The menu = your wedding’s personality. Hire trusted caterers or get creative with your favorite street foods. Signature cocktails? Dessert bar? Bring your planner to tastings to keep things chic and coordinated.
6. Dress, Groom, and Glam
- Start searching for your gown early—think BRIDES Top Tier Salons.
- Book the first fitting 2–3 months after ordering; second fitting 6 weeks out.
- Choose undergarments after first fitting for the perfect silhouette.
- Don’t forget hair, makeup, and your partner’s suit/tuxedo.
7. Vendors and Entertainment
Secure photographers, videographers, bands, DJs, or solo musicians early. Book rentals (chairs, linens, décor essentials), lighting, and officiants. These details may seem minor but define your day’s style and flow.
8. Invitations & Stationery
Order early, double-check names and addresses, and consider matching the invites to your theme. Include RSVP cards and envelopes for smooth tracking.
9. Timeline & Logistics
From transportation to final RSVPs, seating charts, and survival kits, plan early to avoid last-minute chaos. Keep track of payments, delegate tips, and double-check delivery of all essentials.
10. The Final Countdown
Week of the wedding:
- Manicure/pedicure
- Massage
- Final dress fitting
- Honeymoon prep
- Clear your work to-do list
- Practice vows and write your partner a note
11. Big Day Survival Tips
- Eat a healthy meal
- Drink water like it’s your job
- Pack your essentials
- Steam your dress early
- Exchange love notes with your partner
- Thank your team (family, planner, vendors)
Now sit back, breathe, and enjoy the wedding you meticulously planned. After all, this is your style story in motion—and it should be nothing short of unforgettable.
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